Things seem to be settling down in our house now and everybody seems to be in a better mood....thank God. In a nutshell, my soon-to-be-boss approached ex-husband's wife on Wednesday, told her she hired me and asked if that would be a problem (Ex-hubby's wife takes her students on that floor). She told my boss no, it wouldn't be a problem. Somewhere between work that day and going home, a rage built up inside of her that nobody had ever seen. So she proceeded to go home, fight like hell with my ex-husband, blamed it all on him and my kid (YES, she yelled at MY kid how this was all HER fault) and proceeded to KICK THE SHIT out of her husband IN FRONT OF THE KIDS! Apparently the kids were screaming and crying all the while she is telling her husband she is going to divorce him. My daughter takes the kids to the bedroom and tries to calm them down while she is hearing absolutely horrible things being said about me by both of them. Cass goes to school on THursday and barely gets through the day. The horror of watching her father get beat up and hearing all the things they said about ME is haunting her all day. She gets through basketball practice barely. She gets in the car and starts crying and tells me what happened. Oh hellllllllllllllllllllllllllll to the no. As soon as I heard that and heard what they said to her and what she saw, IT WAS FUCKING ON MY FRIENDS, IT WAS ON! I came home and called their house. He answered. I started out calm. Then he started yelling at screaming at me saying "LEAVE US ALONE!" "YOU'RE EVERYWHERE WE ARE, GO AWAY!!!" The next thing I know I'm telling him neither he nor her nor ANYONE will talk like that to my daughter. By then he's so mad he hands HER the phone and she's going off on my equally. Telling me I want her life and that I'm "following" her, how I want my old life back and all I'm trying to do is ruin her life, ruin her job and blah blah blah. I told her how DARE she have the audacity to be so selfish to think that even one decision in my life is based around her! That everything I'm doing is for me and my kid and she isn't even a thought in the matter. It just so happens that yes, I am going to school where she teaches. Hmmmm there aren't any other colleges in this town, so that can't be helped. And yes, now I work in the same area where she does. But the fucking job came open and I needed the experience. I told her I DID NOT leave my cushy job at home, take a GIGANTIC FUCKING CUT IN PAY and agree to work 12-hour shifts just to ruin HER FUCKING LIFE. Apparently she was told by somebody that I badmouthed my ex-husband in the interview (Hmmm, in the interview I said I knew them but there was no relation there) and that I told people that her and I were "friends". Not a fucking word of that was said out of my mouth. So she has basically flown off the handle, beat up her husband, yelled completely inappropriate shit at MY kid and threatened divorce in front of her own children because of SHIT THAT WAS NEVER SAID!!!!!!!!!!! So needless to say, I calmed her down. I told her my intention was never to try to ruin her career. I am just a mom who is trying to work here, that is it. She finally calmed down and told me that she does have the capability to be professional come Monday (yeah we'll see about that) and that we will be just fine. THen she apologized over and over and over again about her behavior with me and especially her behavior with my child the night before. She said she is just being selfish. GEE YA THINK????????????????????????? So all in all, I'm glad we talked it out. I'm not happy about how the conversation started at all but at least we got it out before I showed up out of the blue on Monday morning and knocked her off her rocker when she saw me. Do I believe that she's sorry and thinks she's just selfish? Hell no I don't believe her for a second. I'm sure as soon as she hung up she started bitching about me. But I will go to work on Monday with a smile on my face. I just feel like I'm already being judged by my co-workers who don't even know me at all yet. That part sucks. But the best way to handle people who already have you judged is to go in there and change their minds. And that is exactly what I intend to do. I'm pretty sure now that I will be applying to UNMC in Kearney for my nursing school and getting my BSN. Because that psychotic bitch proved to me that she will NEVER be fair to me if I were a student of hers. And I will not work my ass off like I do and get the grades that I do just so she can be a fuckin bitch and flunk me. No way. No how. And when I go to tell my advisor that I'm going to switch over and she asks why, I'll lay it all out of the effin table and tell her how she acted and that she proved to me she won't be fair. And then that bitch and kiss my ass once and for all. The best part of it all? Knowing that she has given me that kind of "power" over the both of them. I never would have guessed that I could get under their skin like that. I just laugh about it. My God those two really need to get a life. I think her biggest fear is that she will come to work and get to know me and find out I really AM a nice person. And then they won't have anything to bitch about. Then and only then, they may have to deal with the REAL issues in their marriage, none of which include me. You see, I'm just a scapegoat in this situation and I know it. That's why I'm really not too worried about. One of these days one of them will realize their marriage is so fucked up beyond belief and not one ounce of it has to do with me. And then maybe they'll grow up and act like adults are supposed to act and either shit or get off the pot. And when that day comes, I will be sitting in the front row with my bucket of popcorn laughing my ass off until I pee through my shorts. past and future A few hours my ass! - 2007-05-07
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I am a 34-year-old college student, mom, friend and all around sarcastic and fun loving person. I'm going to school to be a nurse. I recently quit a high paying job from home to get back into the hospital setting and to get my feet wet in nursing. I work on the Maternal Child Unit which includes the birthing center, perinatal care and Pediatrics. I LOVE IT! These last few years have been all about changes in my life. Although they have required great sacrifice, I know it will be worth it when I'm through. I have a great life and great family and friends and occasionally bitch about my white trash neighbors. Mostly here you will find rants and raves about various people, places, and circumstances. ENJOY! Loves: Nursing, chocolate, my daughter, family and friends, diet coke, Grey's Anatomy (DUH!), being out of my front patio in the summertime with my neighbors, babies, US Weekly magazine, reality TV, being smart and being a mother. Hates: Chemistry, online cyberstalkers who have no life but to be online 24/7 causing drama, my white trash neighbors, pepporoni pizza, mice, bugs, when it's too hot outside and I get sweaty, seafood, backstabbing people, liars, crooks, and when people play the "victim" and whine 24/7.
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